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4 Reasons Why Your Natural Hair Isn’t Soft

via Clutch Magazine

When making the transition to natural, you may have notice that your hair feels like steel wool or your hair feels a bit rough. The ultimate goal for natural hair is to have soft, pliable strands that make it easier to style and handle on a daily basis.

If your natural hair isn’t soft as you would like it to be, here are a few reasons why your curls may feel hard:

You’re Not Moisturizing Correctly

Since coarse hair tends to be dry, it’s important to make sure your hair is moisturized. The best way to add moisture to your hair is using a spray bottle to spritz water into your curls.

Do not make the mistake of sealing products with moisturizing products. Moisturizing product is simply water or a product with water as the base ingredient. Sealing product is oil such as coconut oil. Putting a sealing product on an un-moisturized strand equals more dryness. You never want the strands to be dry on the inside and coated with a product on the outside.

Remember to always seal your ends.

Products Are Just Building Up

Some of us only use two products to keep our hair healthy. Some of us use a grocery list of products to maintain our curls. No matter how much products you use, you want to avoid having product buildup.

It is very easy to pile product on and on. When you go overboard, you can create a dirty, itchy scalp that is greasy, waxy, and heavy.

To remove product buildup, you can use clarifying rinses with apple cider vinegar, organic hair wash, or mud washes.

A Product Becomes Harmful, Not Helpful

Take a closer look at all the products you use. You want to be cautious of shampoos containing sulfate and products containing baking soda.

If you wash your hair and it feels extremely clean, it may be a sign that you have stripped your cuticles of natural oils. This can lead to breakage as well as more dryness. If your products are too harsh, do not use them. To restore your hair’s moisture, you should thoroughly condition your curls after washing it.

Your Hair Is Saying No to Moisture

When your hair can’t retain moisture, you may need a protein treatment or stay away from products that are too high in alkalinity like sulfate shampoos and baking soda. You can use porosity controller products as well.


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Finding MY Natural Hair “Swag”

on a daily basis women tell me that they want to go natural but they are unsure how they will look because their hair doesn’t look like mine, iit won’t be curly like mine, iit’s not big like mine etc.. and while the compliments on my hair feels nice, ii don’t like for my kinks to be compared to theirs. because  everyone’s hair is different and ii want them to embrace the locks God gave them.

which ii know is easier said then done, because it took me a while for me to embrace my natural hair. ii had to find my natural hair “swag”. it took a lot of patience, learning and practicing to find what works for me. iin the beginning of my natural hair journey ii didn’t really love my hair the way ii do now, because iit didn’t look like (my hair crush) Tracii Ellis Ross. my hair wasn’t wavy, it was kinky..very kinky. and yes my hair curled up when iit got wet, but when it dried..boy o boy that was a hot dry mess, with NO curl definition to it. ii didn’t think that ii could do it, ii didn’t know if this going natural thing was for me.

but ii didn’t give up, ii opened my laptop and did some YouTube diving. ii learned that ii wasn’t washing and detangling my hair correctly, ii wasn’t moisturizing and sealing properly and my styles were a little wack compared to what ii found on the internet. upon learning the basic techniques of taking care of natural hair, my natural hair “swag” was born. ii begin to twist, bun, pin-up, braid, roll my hair into all different styles and yup ii was in love <3.

ii say this to all my sistas that want to go natural but don’t think “it’s for them”, ii want you to give iit a try. you never know, you might just fall in love :).

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